Time Flies (#232)

I’m really trying my best to be present. To savor and cherish every second that passes me by in a day. I get to celebrate one of my best friends, Melissa, with her family and I’m grateful. The problem is as I write this post, is that today is already over.

This goes two ways though. I feel like I’m being mindful without the constant mental reminders. I engage in conversation, I use my senses to appreciate my surroundings, I listen to others, and it all falls into place from there. I can’t believe there’s already been 11 days of August because I feel like I just got home.

Life is both long and short, we gotta make the most of it anyway we know how.

08.11.18

Today I’m Grateful For…

  1. Going out on the boat
  2. Trying new things
  3. Swimming in a warm lake
  4. No traffic
  5. Delicious breakfast and cheesy eggs
  6. Premier League updates from my brother
  7. Shared laughter
  8. Finding new things in old bookstores
  9. Buffalo Chicken Calzonesssssssss
  10. My BSU friends and memories
  11. Mini golf with the Belanger’s
  12. Quick naps in the car
  13. Family adventures in the mini van
  14. A warm towel
  15. Pleasant surprises
  16. My grandma’s home made Italian food
  17. Getting organized and making plans
  18. The jet lag to help me write my blog
  19. That my family loves my cat too
  20. My discover weekly on Spotify
  21. Comfy pillows and sweatshirts
  22. The smell of rain
  23. Learning something new
  24. Reading newspaper comics with my dad
  25. The right here, right now

As always, check out my first blog, 25 Things I’m Grateful For (#1) to know why I’m writing this list and why I want you to start yours.

Featured image of a weird perspective from the pier. What’s your gratitude today?!

Embracing Change (#231)

I’m grateful for gratitude. It may seem like an intuitive statement but it’s true. Gratitude is powerful and sharing it allows us to be present. Change is always happening and gratitude grounds us in the here and now.

08.10.18

Today I’m Grateful For…

  1. Ice cream trips with Mel
  2. Celebrating Mel’s birthday with her family
  3. Gratitude
  4. A clean and nice smelling car
  5. Night time stretches
  6. BSU Greek life
  7. Sharing music
  8. Honest people and good communication
  9. Chocolate dessert
  10. CLEAN WATER! Check out my project and see how you can get involved!
  11. A beer with my dad
  12. Harry Potter movie marathon
  13. Crimson and Weygand memories
  14. Heat lightning
  15. Home cooked meals and good grilling
  16. Cuddling with my cat
  17. Recliners and movies
  18. Sitting on my balcony
  19. Fresh smelling plants and flowers
  20. My Peer Mentor staff
  21. Working at UMass
  22. Summer audiobooks and book clubs
  23. The start of the Pats season
  24. Game of Thrones Sunday’s
  25. Being exactly where I am
  • As always, check out my first blog, 25 Things I’m Grateful For (#1) to know why I’m writing this list and why I want you to start yours.

    Featured image from my run with my mom. Grateful for her and our time together.

    My Power Within (#206)

    There are a lot of people I look up to. They’re strong, self motivated, and have this innate confidence I often wish to emulate.

    I’m grateful. I didn’t always believe I had it. I didn’t always feel capable but I know over time that’s changed. My heart ache, my moments of learning, it’s helped me recognize my own power within. My power comes from my breath and is sustained with each moment of gratitude and appreciation for this life and my place within an ever changing universe.

    07.16.18

    Today I’m Grateful For…

    1. One step at a time
    2. Orientation dance parties
    3. A Long Walk To Water by Linda Sue Park. Check out my CLEAN WATER project and see how you can get involved!
    4. Punk music with Riley
    5. Time at the gym
    6. Naps after work
    7. A few deep breaths when I’m anxious
    8. The sound and smell of rain
    9. Runs through campus
    10. College football season and PAC 12 after dark
    11. My brother hearing out my crazy dreams
    12. Honesty
    13. Reclining seats at the movies
    14. My friends who encourage and support me
    15. Embracing change
    16. PC Gaming with my dad
    17. Neighborhood wiffleball games
    18. The smell of seaweed
    19. My grandparents
    20. Real instruments
    21. Spotify music and my favorite albums
    22. My fraternity
    23. Love songs and feel good music
    24. Phone calls Home
    25. The present moment

    As always, check out my first blog, 25 Things I’m Grateful For (#1) to know why I’m writing this list and why I want you to start yours.

    Featured image of Loch Ness in Scotland. The day was perfect as the ferry did a small loop in the massive lake. The sun was out and the breeze felt good. The sky was blue and it was the perfect day to spot an underwater sea monster.

    Gratitude In Food (#194)

    If you’ve been following along, it’s no secret I’m a huge fan of good cooking. I often find gratitude in food like peanut butter and buffalo chicken for more reasons than just how they taste. These foods and flavors are closely associated with fond memories and important people.

    This is also bigger than just me. There are millions of people around the world who aren’t sure what their next meal is or when it will come. I’m lucky I have so much access to food and clean cooking. There are people far worse off than I am and that’s something I’m mindful of whenever eating. I’m grateful I got to spend the day cooking good food with good company.

    Happy 4th, America!

    07.04.18

    Today I’m Grateful For…

    1. Homemade Lasagna
    2. Local Pizza
    3. Sharing birthday cake
    4. Fish and chips
    5. Granola in the morning
    6. Peanut butter
    7. Sushi
    8. Fresh fruit
    9. Anything from the grill
    10. Stir fry and Pho
    11. Taco Tuesday
    12. Beef and Broccoli
    13. Thick and creamy Alfredo
    14. A good cheeseburger
    15. Baked Fusili, a Cambodian dish
    16. Donuts coming home from basketball with my dad after both wins and loses
    17. Eggs! Omelettes, scrambled, fried, they’re all good to me
    18. Celery for snacks
    19. Watermelon in the summer
    20. Bagels on Sunday
    21. Cereal after school
    22. Desserts of all kinds
    23. New England Seafood
    24. Trying new foods
    25. Sharing the present moment

    As always, check out my first blog, 25 Things I’m Grateful For (#1) to know why I’m writing this list and why I want you to start yours.

    Featured image of one of the many dishes we made today. I have a new appreciation for vegan and vegetarian food, delicious!

    “The Outcome Is Not The Outcome” (#190)

    I was listening to my new favorite podcast “Tribe of Mentors” and this was one of the quotes.

    “The outcome is not the outcome”.

    I think this quote stands out to me because I’ve seen it in my own life. Despite what happens in life, what we go through, what we accomplish, the world turns on. Successes, failures, change, it’s all constantly occurring leading us to new outcomes and learning moments.

    I think this is why gratitude can be so important. We can recognize how far we’ve come. When we were at our lowest, what it took to climb out because we know we can keep going. All we need to remember is to take it one day at a time.

    06.30.18

    Today I’m Grateful For…

    1. The month of June
    2. Time to journal
    3. Safe travels
    4. This week with my brother. Having him here really made transitioning back to England that much easier.
    5. Drake’s new album Scorpion and talking about it with my friends
    6. Catching up
    7. FaceTimes with friends and family
    8. Clean water
    9. Healthy habits
    10. Trust and honesty
    11. My red hiking bag and the places it goes
    12. Warm covers on cold nights
    13. Signs from the Universe
    14. What hard work brings
    15. My process
    16. Walks into town
    17. New beginnings
    18. A clean room
    19. Audiobooks and podcasts
    20. My family
    21. Summer on the cape
    22. Moments of learning
    23. Early morning runs
    24. Good health
    25. The present moment

    As always, check out my first blog, 25 Things I’m Grateful For (#1) to know why I’m writing this list and why I want you to start yours.

    Featured image from our travels to Liverpool. Thought the reflection looked cool.

    A Moment To Reflect And Breath (#126)

    I was disappointed in myself for missing a couple of days of blogging. I’d like to think I kept my gratitude promise by writing for those days today but I know it’s not the same thing. It shouldn’t matter that I published the blog a couple of days late because it was never about posting every day or proving I can write 365 blogs. I didn’t start writing about gratitude to quantify a list of things I have. It’s not about the stuff on the list, or how many there are. It’s about the feeling each list item brings. So that’s why I’ll keep writing about gratitude. I believe in the power of thankfulness and hope sharing mine can inspire more.

    I recognize I hold a lot of privilege in my identities and opportunities. Sometimes preaching gratitude feels like I’m just simply advertising my advantages. I think like every feeling or emotion, we all feel it differently. The way I feel and express gratitude will be different than how others do the same.

    Albeit small, I want to use this platform to bring positivity into this world and inspire others any way I can.

    04.28.18

    Today I’m Grateful For…

    1. My dad coaching my teams growing up
    2. Orange juice in the morning
    3. Deep conversation
    4. Our existence
    5. Trying something new
    6. A platform to share my thoughts
    7. My fraternity brothers and goodbyes
    8. The sound of birds chirping in the morning
    9. Tattoo stories
    10. Meeting new people
    11. A couple deep breaths
    12. Bryan Gammon, one of my best friends
    13. The calming rain and how it feels when it lands on my skin
    14. Passion and energy
    15. My job here at UMass
    16. Summer walks through the state park
    17. Nights on the beach
    18. Night time stretches
    19. Listening to my parents tell old stories
    20. Letting go
    21. Good self-care
    22. Coming home to my cat
    23. Clean water
    24. Support and encouragement

    As always, check out my first blog, 25 Things I’m Grateful For (#1) to know why I’m writing this list and why I want you to start yours.

    Featured image is my own this time! A silhouette I took on the beach in California. Truly, a great day.

    Let’s Keep It Going (#124)

    List number 2 of the promised gratitude! This is kinda fun. Can you keep up?

    04.26.18

    Today I’m Grateful For…

    1. New pens
    2. Good group members
    3. Honesty
    4. Good teachers and bad teachers
    5. Learning moments
    6. Clean air and the outdoors
    7. Alpha Sigma Tau Sorority at BSU
    8. My peer Mentors
    9. Rainy days with my cat
    10. Songs you can shake your butt to
    11. People who inspire me
    12. Real Philly Cheesesteaks
    13. Coming home
    14. The sunshine
    15. Frank and Holly
    16. A handy box of tissues
    17. Popcorn, movies, and recliner seats
    18. Sharing gratitude
    19. Stepping outside my comfort zone
    20. My trust in the unknown
    21. Positivity! There isn’t enough of it in this world
    22. A few deep breaths
    23. Self-care
    24. Artistic expression
    25. This very moment


    As always, check out my first blog, 
    25 Things I’m Grateful For (#1) to know why I’m writing this list and why I want you to start yours.

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    Featured image of the Universe all around us. Again, this picture is not my own but I can certainly appreciate the meaning behind it.